Those might be wise words to think of for yourself......
So...you would assume that is not intentional? I know exactly how people perceive me when I write- I've been participating in online communities for well over a decade. I project myself the way I intend people to perceive me. I have a feeling that you do not.
As I tell people in real life- I never said I was nice. Sure, I will bend over backward to help somebody if need be, but I never pretend to be nice, and I don't hide behind a false persona.